I, along with much of the world I’m sure, found myself falling victim to watching the Royal Wedding of Prince William and his wife to be Catherine Middleton. While it is fun to see and dream about having an extravagant wedding, the reality is most people cannot afford to get too extreme. Watching the Royal Wedding it almost made me sick to my stomach to think of how much money truly went into it all. From the extravagant dress and decorations, to the reception, the wedding was flawless and seemed to be straight out of a fairytale. I'm sure the wedding was something that Catherine, who grew up in a middle class family, could have only dreamed of growing up.
Everyday, especially in the celebrity news and television shows, women see images of weddings with brides and grooms who seem to have no worries about how much money is spent. With these shows and celebrity weddings as the basis of our generations wedding ideas and planning, it’s hard to not try and live up to expectations. While it is neat being able to see the perfect wedding, it does not help that women feel they need to do the same. Obviously the average person would never be able to pull of the Royal Wedding without being in debt the rest of their lives, and then some. But the fact is women will still try to have the “mini” version of what they see portrayed. It’s sad that a lot of women feel that it is necessary to have extravagant weddings because society gives them the ideas that it needs to be a big impressive show.
I have always wanted to have a simple wedding, and one that is as inexpensive as it can be. I could never see myself spending even close to as much as what I see in the media. I would much rather have a small, intimate wedding with close family and friends than something meant to impress my guests. I don’t see the point of spending thousands and thousands of dollars on a wedding in order to achieve the perfect wedding, especially if the main reasoning behind it is impressing people. I think it is kind of funny, and stupid of people who do try and live up to these expectations for the benefit of others, because even it that perfect wedding is achieved and all of your guests are in awe, someone else will come by right after and outdo you, leaving you in debt and no one remembering it anyways. Even the Royal Wedding of William and Catherine is compared to his parents, Charles and Diana's.